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Sometimes people come into our lives for only brief moments and leave footprints across our hearts like fleeting rays from the sun. This post is dedicated to a beautiful person whose departure from this world came too soon. A poignant truth we all must embrace is that every one of us is flawed. It’s so …
There’s an ache in revisiting a place that once held your very identity. New York City, that concrete jungle once pulsating with the rhythm of my being, now feels like a stranger simply wearing familiar landmarks. Buildings have overtaken where the parks used to be, where kids used to play. The city’s buzz replaced by …
Intergenerational trauma is when trauma is passed down from one generation to the next. An example of this could be generational drug or alcohol addiction. It’s a heavy burden that many carry, often unknowingly. Breaking this cycle can feel daunting, but it’s a crucial step for the health and well-being of future generations. So here …
The healing journey fucking sucks! I’m saying that with my whole chest. And I’m saying that while still making the choice to continue on this journey. It’s a declaration I make, not with resignation, but with a fierce determination to persist. My life, a series of experiences woven together by the imagination only Creator could …
Once in a blue moon, we stumble upon a love so profound, it echoes through lifetimes, as if our souls have been in an eternal dance. In those moments when our gazes rest on each other, the world stops turning, and we plunge into the depths of each other. It’s mesmerizing. Yet, in these fragments …
I reached out to my uncle on what would have been my grandmother’s birthday, the first the family faced without her since she passed away six months ago after a brief battle in the hospital. Then, in quick succession, the loss of two cousins shortly after. Prior to my grandmother, a series of losses of …
In the realm of sexual pleasure, adult toys have carved a niche for themselves, becoming a popular choice among women worldwide. However, beneath the veil of pleasure and orgasms, there lies a concern that’s not often talked about – radiation emission from these toys and its potential impact on women’s health. It’s time to shed …
In the quiet whispers of the heart, a realm of infinite wisdom unfolds, reverberating in the sacred chamber of our being, offering a roadmap to a place of healing and tranquility. Have you ever stopped to ponder the symphony of intelligence that beats tirelessly in our chests, that beacon of loving energy that has the …
Postpartum psychosis (PP) is a rare but serious mental illness that can occur after childbirth. It is characterized by a sudden onset of severe mood swings, delusions, and hallucinations. Symptoms typically begin within the first two weeks after childbirth, but can occur up to a year later. The exact cause of PP is unknown, but …
The Supreme Court has been on a roll recently, striking down many of the rulings that have been held in place for decades. This is a major setback for many people, but especially for people of color. In its latest ruling, the Court struck down affirmative action in college admissions. This means that colleges and …
I woke up at 3am that morning, long before the sun peeked through the clouds. I lay in bed for a few hours, thinking about my kids. I thought about their needs, how I could better support them, and the things I’d like to do for them. My 14-year-old son woke up and started getting …
Heart intelligence is a term that is becoming increasingly popular. It refers to the wisdom and guidance that comes from the heart, as opposed to the mind or intellect. Heart Intelligence is rooted in many ancient traditions and spiritual practices, and is now gaining recognition as a powerful tool for personal growth and transformation. The …
Stress is a part of life, and there’s not much we can do to avoid some level of it, but too much stress can have devastating consequences on your physical and mental health. When you experience stress, your body goes through a series of changes, from increased heart rate to decreased immune system function. Some …
Emotional intelligence means having the ability to understand, process, and respond to emotions in yourself or someone else. It can make a huge difference in your life when you’re proficient in these areas. Here are some of the top personality traits of an emotionally intelligent partner: Emotional intelligence is all about being aware of your …
As partners, we all want to be there for each other in good times and bad. When our loved one is going through a tough time, it’s natural to want to provide support and encouragement to help them overcome their challenges. However, it’s also important to know when to draw the line and allow your …
Chronic pain is a condition that’s so much more common than most of us imagine. It affects millions of people worldwide. It’s defined as ongoing pain that lasts for more than three months and can significantly impact an individual’s quality of life. Chronic pain often has a profound effect on a person’s relationships, including those …
Family dynamics can be challenging to identify at first, and then to change. So often, we get caught up in the way we’ve always seen things done. We end up repeating the patterns and often can’t see when they’re unhealthy. Yet, as we heal, we begin to identify negative patterns. When we choose to heal …
Cosmic sex refers to the idea that sexual intercourse is not just a physical act, but a cosmic experience that connects two individuals to the divine and the energies within it. This is rooted in the belief that sexual energy is a powerful force that transcends beyond the physical realm and taps into the cosmic …
Sacred geometry is the study of geometric shapes and patterns that are believed to have spiritual significance. When it comes to relationships, sacred geometry can be used to understand underlying patterns and dynamics that shape our interactions with others. One of the most fundamental shapes in sacred geometry is the circle. In relationships, the circle …
During a discussion with my mother this morning, we discussed how interesting it is that I’m usually the youngest person in a group. Often, I’m found spending time with elders. This has been the case since I was a little girl. I used to sit with the elders on my block and listen to their …
If you’re anything like me, you know traveling with toddlers can be fun and exciting, AND it can also be a test of where your last nerve is. Trying to juggle everything from packing and planning to keeping your little one entertained and comfortable, there are so many things to consider when traveling with a …
We all know the saying it takes a village to raise children, and while that used to be exactly how it was, times have changed quite tremendously. Parents are on hyper-alert because there are predators preying on their children and feel resistant to the interference of the community. On the other hand, the community isn’t …
“Mommy, play with me”… That’s what my little one says every day. It doesn’t matter if I just spent the last hour playing with him. For him, it’s not enough. I feel terrible telling him I can’t play with him because I need to work. The look of disappointment registers clearly on his face and …
When it comes to relationships and intimacy, our greatest teachers are the examples we had growing up and the environments we were in. Most people don’t realize just as easily as we need to learn different subjects in school, we should also be reading and learning about healthy relationships. Relationships are some of the most …
She laughed and said I was detached. She spoke in general of my nature as a person. I disagreed. She wasn’t the only one that said that and felt like they had a good read of who I am. I realized they didn’t know me very well. Or at least not as well as they …
As a parent with multiple kids, I’m constantly reminded that my kids watch me grow and evolve. Each child gets a slightly different version of mommy. My prayer is that none of them feel the other got more of me than they did. As I sat and talked with my oldest today, I could see …
Cardiac disease is the #1 cause of death among women. As women, we’re notorious for overworking and pouring into everyone else, prioritizing others, and leaving ourselves for last. We’re taught to put our partner first, our children first, and even our careers first. None of those include putting ourselves first. I’m absolutely guilty of doing …
I’ve been hearing from so many of my followers that they battle with anxiety and in many instances it plays out in their behavior and their relationships. What we often overlook are the things we do that may be contributing to the anxiety and it’s severity. So I wanted to help you out and give …
Social media has been swirling with memes asking you to prove what you “bring to the table” so to speak. This seems to be a hot topic on platforms where people are known for randomly scrolling. The range of responses can be just as vast. In reality, the answer to a question like this is …
Ostracism is the technical name for the silent treatment. Partial ostracism is also done when the offended party responds with one word replies…